Well my title is a struggle because I am a female so I don’t know the challenges of being called dad,daddy,pops,father. But I do know the genuine joy that is felt by being called Mom!
I think fathers or at least many fathers challenges are those of being a superhero! Having a wife and kids expect things from you including financially, emotionally, and physically is different then being a mom. I should mention I say this from my perspective. As personally I know mothers that are the only superhero in their kids lives. Those moms I applaud daily. I don’t know how I would do all the things that two toddlers throw at me in a day alone! So to you moms who are both roles awesome job!!
To those dads that choose to not be active in their kids lives I’m so sorry for you. Such a loss it is for you. Missing seeing a child to show you all the joys their life brings including first steps to becoming an incredible baseball player. There’s even those times when they need their dad to help them as challenges arise for them as being a kid at times can be rough. A dad’s perspective is sometimes different from mom’s. Frankly, dad sees things differently then our mom’s like sports or learning to ride your bike. Maybe it’s that physical aspect. No doubt those father’s that have chosen to be transparent in their children’s life I’m sorry! If you are reading this there’s no better time than the present to make a change.
Those dad’s that are rocking this whole daddy thing or at least giving it their all; hats off to you! I grew up with my dad in my life and yes I have memories with mom but I have very specific memories with my dad. Him calling my sister and I his pumpkins after kissing us goodnight. Or he and I dancing in our living room to The Allman Brothers Band on Friday nights! That embarrassing nickname he gave me but deep down loved that I had. Dad’s just are different in their relationships with their kids. Joe may not have nicknames for our kids yet but he always kisses our kids goodnight no matter how late he gets in. He once a week surprises them with a special note and a donut for breakfast. It’s the little things that kids remember. Celebrating dad is such a great day that many times seems like it’s pushed to the wayside. Not celebrated as Mother’s Day is. Don’t know exactly why but I hope those of you out there made yesterday extra special for the man your kids call dad or the man you call dad. As mom’s always seem to cover the big stuff but dad gets the joy of celebrating the small moments they create!
I hope all you Father’s out there had a great day! As a mom and daughter I thank you for all you do!
Ok so this week has been pretty great with my management team! S and K that is!! The weather has been all over the board which has stunk but we are managing! K is still in love with shouting out “I don’t care, I love it, I love it!” and S has a standard response of “Oh my Gosh Mom!” to almost everything so status quo there. Our yard is planned to start taking on a new look this upcoming week so the kids will be terribly upset to see the mound of dirt gone but I’m sure a water feature going in will make for them to think we have put this in for their enjoyment! I look forward to sharing pictures for now we have just put in the final plantings in the retaining wall and last of stone path.
We met up with a girlfriend this week at a great little place I definitely recommend checking out if you have kids ages 0-4. It is called Yu Kids Island, LLC! Yu Kids Island, LLC. They totally have this toddler entertainment thing down! All bright-colored, soft activities including merry-go-round, bouncy slide, a space that’s filled with balloons flying all over the place and a slide that is made of a plexi glass type product with water under it! S and K could stay all day and the set up I will say allows for mom/dad/grandparents/caregivers to take a break and sit at a half counter and watch the kids. The girls working are great helping the little ones get on a little taller stuff and constantly cleaning the area.
On to a fun product we tried this week! The Got Milk Straws! Yes they have been around for years but we are just getting to try out! S and K spotted these while grocery shopping and of course my initial thought was “I’m not spending money on something we buy squeeze bottles of for much less” but then I thought “ok they are being good and I would rather spend money on something to go in their milk as to them asking and likely me arguing over not buying a dollar toy”. So in the cart they went…some may say I just bribed them and you are 100% correct but is it really bribery if it’s food?! We recently introduced chocolate milk to them so when S saw strawberry she couldn’t wait to try! We’ll after all the excitement I will say K loves these as he thinks it’s candy so it’s a no brainer for him. S on the other hand prefers fruits and veggies so she hasn’t asked for it again. I tried and will say yes it does the trick but to get the full chocolate effect I had to break up the little chocolate pieces. So for now I think we will stick with the squeeze bottles or at least until we are in another grocery store that does genius product placement of the product!
A few other things for the week! We got a jump start on dad’s Father’s Day gifts. The first one we did was I interviewed S with a serious of questions about Joe. I will type it up on cute paper and frame it for his day. I will start this with K next year! We also did a cute “We Love You” gift which I wish I could share the step by step process with you but my computer crashed and away went those pictures so once complete I will share!
Last I created each of the kids their own email address! I read about doing this somewhere and each month sending them an email and when they turn eighteen give them the password! I love this idea I think I will share the address with grandmas and papas too!
OK have a great Sunday everyone! I’m headed to take part in the Cancer Assault Challenge that includes fifteen obstacles of mud, water, etc. wish me luck and I will share the experience tomorrow!
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